Yevheniia Lysenko
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Daily note

Daily notes

Short tips from practice and thoughts from people who knew the worth of a word. Each takes twenty seconds to read.

  • 15NovemberSunday

    Tip

    Said it? Stop.

    Once you have made your point, stop. The worst lines in interviews and negotiations are born in the pause after a good answer, when you are tempted to add something. The silence after a full stop is working for you.

  • 13NovemberFriday

    Tip

    Look into the lens

    On a video call we look at the other person’s face — and they see our eyes cast down. When you say the thing that matters, look straight into the lens. For the person on the other side of the screen, that is eye contact.

  • 11NovemberWednesday

    Quote

    An orator is a good man, skilled in speaking.

    QuintilianInstitutio Oratoria, quoting Cato the Elder

  • 9NovemberMonday

    Tip

    The room is on your side

    People in the audience are not waiting for you to slip. They came to hear something useful and they want you to do well. Find two or three friendly faces and speak to them. The rest will follow.

  • 7NovemberSaturday

    Quote

    What are they, it would seem — just words… Words and a voice, and nothing more. And yet the heart beats and comes alive on hearing them!

    Taras Shevchenkofrom a poem of 1848, in translation

  • 5NovemberThursday

    Tip

    A formula for answers

    Answer an unexpected question in four steps: point, reason, example, point again. “Here is what I think. Because… For example… And that is why I think so.” Confusion turns into a clear answer — even when you had to think on your feet.

  • 3NovemberTuesday

    Quote

    I have made this letter longer than usual because I have not had time to make it shorter.

    Blaise PascalProvincial Letters, 1657

  • 1NovemberSunday

    Tip

    The first thirty seconds

    Don’t open with “Hello, my name is…” and thanks to the organisers. Open with a question, a number or a short story. You can introduce yourself half a minute later — once people are already listening.

  • 30OctoberFriday

    Quote

    All the great speakers were bad speakers at first.

    Ralph Waldo EmersonThe Conduct of Life, “Power”, 1860

  • 28OctoberWednesday

    Tip

    A pause instead of “um”

    Filler words appear wherever we are afraid of silence. Try replacing every “um” with one second of quiet. To you that second will feel like an eternity; the audience will hear someone who thinks before speaking.

  • 26OctoberMonday

    Quote

    The right word may be effective, but no word was ever as effective as a rightly timed pause.

    Mark Twainintroduction to his collected speeches

  • 24OctoberSaturday

    Tip

    Breathe out longer than in

    A minute before you go on: breathe in for a count of four, out for six. Five or six rounds, and your pulse slows and your voice stops shaking. It isn’t magic, it’s physiology: a long exhale tells the body there is no danger.

  • 22OctoberThursday

    Quote

    Grasp the subject, and the words will follow.

    Cato the Elderas handed down by Roman rhetoricians

  • 20OctoberTuesday

    Tip

    One idea

    Before you prepare a speech, write down its main idea in a single sentence. If you can’t, the speech isn’t ready yet — however many slides you have. Anything that doesn’t support that sentence can safely go.